Candy Spelling tells Paris Hilton she's worried about her, that she realizes the last week has been an emotional roller-coaster for the hotel heiress, but she's not exactly sympathetic toward Hilton.Spelling acknowledges the rich and famous are not treated like regular people and her letter reminds Paris that her priviledged life works to her benefit"Frankly, you can get away with more bad behavior and excuses than most people could even imagine. However, as the real possibility of jail approaches, it's time to get real. It's time to find 'a Paris' somewhere between 'heiress' and a character on 'The Simple Life.' I know she's there, and I know she can be a good citizen and maturely face consequences other people would have to face under the same circumstances," says Spelling. Candy Spelling says she can't think of anything much worse than a jail sentence.

"But since you let this happen, use the next couple of weeks preparing not only by publicly learning to fight, but by looking around, realizing that you are not as truly entitled as your money implies. You are a young woman who can add more to her community than establishing new definitions for infamy," adds Spelling.Someone else is speaking out on Paris: Newspaper heiress Patty Hearst, who spent two years behind bars for committing bank robbery with her captors. Hearst told her heart goes out to Paris's cellmates. Forty-five days with Paris Hilton and the attendant publicity seems like cruel and unusual punishment to me. Perhaps THEY should be petitioning the governor for relief? OK, that wasn't nice. But seriously, if Paris really wants my advice it's this: Read Candy Spelling's letter several times and